Today I am going to talk about 6 basic needs that can make you successful. These needs are essential and useful for everyone whether it be a rich king or a poor man. Here, I am not talking about the basic human needs like food, cloth and shelter instead I am talking about six basic psychological needs on which our decision, behaviour and actions are based. Smoking cigarettes, drinking alcohol, making new friends, wasting time and many more actions that we take is to fulfil these needs. These are our important needs, not our desires. We must learn about these needs so that we can make a good impact on our and others behaviour. So let's get started.
Six basic human needs
Certainty
Certainty is a basic human need that focuses on two things first to stay away from pain and second to get pleasure. It's our first psychological need and it is dominant in most of us. Most people complete these need in a negative way which you should avoid doing. You should positively complete these needs. Most people smoke a cigarette because they know that by doing this they will get pleasure but it is a negative way to get pleasure. To get pleasure through the positive way you can perform some exercise because when you perform exercise adrenaline Start to flow in your body and it gives you pleasure or you can also perform prayer also it is a good way to get pleasure.
Uncertainty
Imagine you get the power to know everything In this world. You also know that what is going to happen and what is written in this post then will you read this post, of course, no because you will feel bored because you already know everything. The second thing that everybody needs in their life is uncertainty. To make life interesting we need something new, something different from daily. Everybody loves surprises. You also surprise right, wrong you love only those surprises which you want in your life and those surprises which you don't want in your life you call them as problems. When something unexpected occurs in our life then it makes our life more interesting. You may have seen those people who go on jobs they get certainty with a salary but as time passes they start to feel bored from their life because going the same palace every day, working in the same place, meeting same people daily makes them feel bored. You can fulfil your uncertainty by learning new skills, working on your dreams and goals, growing yourself, etc.
Significance
If you read a history book and present newspaper then you will find one common thing in them and that is violence. In this modern world also people fight with each other because fighting fulfils their one need which is significant. Every human wants to feel unique, feel important and by fighting his needy starts to get a full fill. Every human in his life once dreams of becoming famous because when he will become famous he will be important to others and which will fulfil his significant need. Now also terrorism and violence are spreading everywhere because they also want to feel significant and by doing violence they get their needs fulfilled. you have seen some children are noisy and mischievous because they want to grab others attention towards them. Some people bully others, make fun of others just to show themselves cool and attractive and by doing it they feel significant which is a bad way.
Connection and love
Everybody wants to feel love whether it be for family members or partner. We all want to be loved by others but sometimes some people get cheated in love or get some bad experiences due to which they start fearing love. So next alternative is connection. We feel connected by getting social with other people. Today social media is in boom because social media connect people. some people make gang and do bad things which are a bad way to feel connected. Keeping a pet, especially a dog can make you feel loved and connected.
Growth
In this world nothing still, things are growing or things are dying. Real happiness lies in growth. Most of the time it is seen that even after achieving goals some people don't feel happiness from the inside. We must continue to grow in our life. Happiness is not in a goal it is in the path to achieving it. We should always improve ourselves to get a better version of ourselves.
Contribution
Whenever we get happy we share our happiness with others because sharing increases our happiness. In life, we get real happiness when we start to think about others also. When we think about our family, our friends and do something good for others then we get happiness.
These were the six basic need of human. If you understand them properly then you will be able to see the world with a different view.
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